How can I find a baby?
Texas law does not permit an attorney to locate a child for you, but finding a baby may be easier than you think! Let's see what it takes...
There are two types of adoptions: Agency and private (also known as an independent adoption).
In an agency adoption, you apply with the agency and wait for them to find the birth mother. The agency will then act as an intermediary between you and the birth mother and they will make all of the adoption arrangements.
In a private adoption, you will have to find a birth mother who is willing to place her child for adoption. How do you do that? Get the word out that you are interested in adopting a child! Here are some ideas:
* Post a notice on a university bulletin board
* Tell your co-workers and the people at your church
* Let your gynecologist know
* A beauty parlor is a great place to advertise your interest
* And of course, tell your friends and relatives
You may also want to use a facilitator. Facilitators are paid advertisers who will seek out birth mothers across the country. When they receive a request from a birth mother, they will present her with resumes from adoptive couples who meet her requirements. The birth mother will actually choose the couple that she wants and then they will proceed with a private adoption. In some states you may advertise as well.
The law prohibits out-of-state agencies from coming into Texas and advertising for birth mothers; however, an agency licensed by the State of Texas can do so. Many agencies will place an advertisement in Texas on your behalf for a fee.